LGBT Bullying (My Experience)

             My experiences with people throughout school were not the best. Many people say “I wish I was back in high school” and my response “I hated high school”. In school I was always picked on because I was the gay kid. I do not have the deepest speaking voice, I do not listen to rap all day every day, and I do not sag in my jeans. My senior year in high school I was threatened and cyber bullied. I had to delete my Facebook account for a few months until we graduated and moved on. I also went to high school with a student who was transgender who was beat up and tormented every day. He goes by the name “Sammy”; Sammy and I spoke quite often about life and he told me he wasn’t able to express his self at home and school was his get away from his parents who were not accepting of their child. We both found out the hard way that there was no standard protocol for school staff to handle the situations at hand and my experiences has led me to do a proposal on LGBT Bullying in schools.

            The goals of my solution to LGBT bullying are to make schools a safer environment and in the future to help decrease the rising numbers of LGBT suicide. According to the Gay Lesbian Straight Educator Network, it has been studied and reported that students hear anti-gay slurs more than twenty-five times a day and teachers fail to respond to these comments 97% of the time. The steps needed are to propose the idea to many organizations to gain support on my proposal, recruit volunteers who are down for the cause, organize ways to get our voices heard, and the last step is to take the proposal to the unified school district. These are effective ways to put a proposal in motion because pitching an Idea will possibly inspire other organizations to either join or create a proposal similar.

            If my proposal is actually considered there will be no excuse for school staff and officials to not handle LGBT bullying because it would be in writing and the proposal will possibly decrease LGBT suicide rates and it will make schools a lot safer. According to the secretary’s task force on youth suicide, Gay and Lesbian youth are two to three times more likely to commit suicide than other youths and thirty percent of youth suicides are related to the issue of sexual identity. Students who describe themselves as LGBT are five times more likely to miss school because of feeling unsafe and twenty eight percent of LGBT student drop out of school (National Gay and Lesbian Task Force 1984). More than sixty four of LGBT students say they feel unsafe at school because of their sexual orientation (Glsen 2003 National School Climate survey). Compared to others my proposal should be put into practice because from experience I know what it is like to be alone and not have anyone in your corner and with a written protocol to protect you against school bullying you should feel somewhat safer in schools.         

            In conclusion, my proposal will possibly decrease LGBT suicide rates and make going to school a lot safer and an enjoyable experience for everyone. The LGBT bullying problem will not be solved completely but it can be steps taken to make school a better place. Teaching equality is a great start but when a person grows up and spends less time at home they become accustomed to their environment outside of the home. In today’s world, it is more acceptable to be Gay and in our media there are more positive roles for gay men and women. There is no such thing as gay agenda being presented and I'm not trying to recruit anyone. I'm just trying to make school safer for everyone.

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